Life as it is...

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Not in the mood to update actually, lots of unpleasant things happening around me the whole week. And TGIF! Alhamdulillah. Those unpleasant stuff that I mentioned is not about me, no3x. Early of the week a cousin came and stayed at our house after a fight with her husband. Reason: He starting to lie to her, it is not about another woman but his drinking habits. Well, according to her he is not an alcoholic but what she can't accept now is his constant lying to spend his drinking session with his friends. And after 16 years of marriage, the "volcano" has finally erupted. Yaaaa, as the saying goes ignorance is bliss and patience is virtous. But everything has a limit and it happened. Everyone was caught off guard, the other half, the kids and of course her parents. And then came the blaming session..everyone started to point fingers at each other. The situation became worst when both the other half and one of her sons were involved in an accident the same night she left them. Drama!!!!!!!


My say: Think before you talk. (not meant for her but to someone else in the family) Adakalanya manusia lupak dengan apa yang telah dilafazkan, samada secara gurau atau berupa kata2 keji, maki dan sumpah-seranah. Teringat that before this happened that "someone" has cursed the family of another cousin. And I don't think she'll realised what she has done or said earlier on(which has been going on for years in fact).

This serves to as a self-reminder to myself. So next time, watch your words wisely.

To my dear cousin and her other half, moga jodoh kalian berkekalan hendaknya and tabah menghadapi apa jua cabaran yang bakal melanda. Semoga kalian mengambil iktibar dari kejadian tok and semoga lebih bijak menangani apa jua keadaan kelak.


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